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Learn practical, straightforward methods to boost your soft skills and enhance your career as a software engineer because you are so much more than a developer.

How to Fix Your Feedback Loop

Helping you learn practical, straightforward methods to boost your soft skills and enhance your career as a software engineer. Weekly Newsletter August 26th, 2025 How to Fix Your Feedback Loop You're in a 1:1. Your boss says, "Your last demo ran long. People lost the thread. Tighten it up next time." You nod and agree. A week later, the next demo feels the same. This happens because the feedback is vague and attention shifts to you, not the task. A major meta-analysis found that over...

AI and the Work Around Coding

Helping you learn practical, straightforward methods to boost your soft skills and enhance your career as a software engineer. Weekly Newsletter August 19th, 2025 AI and the Work Around Coding AI is often discussed as if it's going to replace developers, or at least write most of their code. But if you ask engineers where AI is actually helping today, the story looks very different. The gains most developers are seeing are in the "surrounding work." The messy, unglamorous, and time-consuming...

How Pushback Drives Forward Momentum

Helping you learn practical, straightforward methods to boost your soft skills and enhance your career as a software engineer. Weekly Newsletter August 12th, 2025 How Pushback Drives Forward Momentum Ever been handed a project with an impossible deadline or asked to implement a feature that doesn't feel right? In moments like these, you face a tough choice: stay silent and hope for the best, or push back to try and stay ahead of disaster. While many developers remain silent, pushing back...

How to Become a Domain Expert

Helping you learn practical, straightforward methods to boost your soft skills and enhance your career as a software engineer. Weekly Newsletter August 5th, 2025 How to Become a Domain Expert When companies tighten budgets, they make hard choices about who stays and who goes. The engineers who are the hardest to replace are the ones with deep, irreplaceable knowledge. If you understand a critical part of the application better than anyone else, you become essential. Your work makes the team...

How to Get Your Company to Invest in Your Growth

Helping you learn practical, straightforward methods to boost your soft skills and enhance your career as a software engineer. Weekly Newsletter July 29th, 2025 How to Get Your Company to Invest in Your Growth Most engineers know what would help them level up—an online course, a professional certification, or a conference pass. What they don't know is how to ask for it in a way that actually gets approved. Too often, the request feels like a personal favor: "I'd really love to go to this."...

How to Communicate Delays Without Losing Trust

Helping you learn practical, straightforward methods to boost your soft skills and enhance your career as a software engineer. Weekly Newsletter July 22nd, 2025 How to Communicate Delays Without Losing Trust Delays happen. They're inevitable, even on the best-run software teams. But delays don't have to damage trust. How you handle them determines whether your stakeholders see you as reliable or risky. Here's a practical framework you can use to communicate delays without eroding stakeholder...
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Rubber Duck Debugging with AI

Helping you learn practical, straightforward methods to boost your soft skills and enhance your career as a software engineer. Weekly Newsletter July 15th, 2025 Rubber Duck Debugging with AI A practical guide to using AI as a thinking partner when you're stuck It's 1 a.m., and you're staring at your screen. You've read the same lines of code twenty times, the error message might as well be gibberish, and your patience is wearing thin. We've all been there—stuck, frustrated, and no amount of...

Estimating Without the Crystal Ball

Helping you learn practical, straightforward methods to boost your soft skills and enhance your career as a software engineer. Weekly Newsletter July 8th, 2025 Estimating Without the Crystal Ball How to make solid estimates even when the scope is fuzzy How many of us have thrown out a wild guess during an estimation meeting? It's easy to get cynical when estimating new projects. You don't have every requirement. You haven't seen the code. You're being asked to pin a number to something that...

To Get Better Feedback, Show Your Work

Helping you learn practical, straightforward methods to boost your soft skills and enhance your career as a software engineer. Weekly Newsletter July 1st, 2025 To Get Better Feedback, Show Your Work "We'll route by tenant through the API gateway. We'll validate the token up front, then call billing early to pre-authorize before fulfillment. Fulfillment triggers off an event. Keeps it clean." You walk through the design on a call. The flow makes sense in your head. A few people nod. No one...

When Doing Good Work Stops Being Enough

Helping you learn practical, straightforward methods to boost your soft skills and enhance your career as a software engineer. Weekly Newsletter June 24th, 2025 When Doing Good Work Stops Being Enough Most engineers eventually stall out in their careers. Sometimes, it happens early, once the ramp-up period ends and the learning curve flattens out. At other times, it happens years later, after long stretches of consistent delivery with no change in scope, role, or expectations. Their title...

Learn practical, straightforward methods to boost your soft skills and enhance your career as a software engineer because you are so much more than a developer.